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Give Your Marriage a Gift
A Guided Relationship Tune-Up
A working date night for couples who want their relationship to be better
Light supper and refreshments provided
If your relationship is functioning well enough, but you sense it could be more connected, more supportive, or more intentional, this evening is for you.
Many couples are not in crisis, yet find themselves spending more time managing logistics than truly connecting. This Guided Relationship Tune-Up is designed for couples who want to pause, reset, and invest in how they relate—before distance quietly grows.
This is not therapy and not a lecture. It is a guided, in-person working date night that helps couples practice a few high-impact relational processes together, privately, with structure and support.
What Makes This Different
There is no shortage of relationship advice online. What most couples don’t get from social media, podcasts, or books is guided practice—a calm, intentional environment where new ways of relating can be experienced and felt.
“A relaxed, well-paced evening with time to eat, reflect, and reconnect.”
Think of this evening as a carefully curated date that blends connection, reflection, and professional guidance—so what you practice together has a better chance of carrying into everyday life.
What You’ll Learn and Practice
You will be guided to work with three important practices that strong, resilient relationships rely on:
Intentionality
Learn how individuals and couples can harness the practice of setting intentions as a powerful relational tool. Intentionality helps shape tone, reduce reactivity, and create shared direction. Rather than reacting moment by moment, couples learn how to orient themselves toward how they want to be with each other, especially during times of stress or transition.
Being on the Same Team
Learn how to cultivate a relational stance in which partners experience each other as allies rather than adversaries. You’ll explore ways of offering support, encouragement, and appreciation that help your partner feel backed, valued, and believed in.
Working with Differences
Differences are inevitable; disconnection is not. You’ll learn an approach for staying emotionally connected while navigating differences. How to listen with the goal of understanding rather than winning, how to express your own experience without blame, and how to move from misunderstanding to repair to collaboration.
The focus is not on eliminating disagreement, but on learning how to remain allies in the presence of differences.
These processes are practiced privately with your partner, with clear structure and guidance. The emphasis is on learning how to work with each other, not on diagnosing what’s wrong.
Who This Is For
This Working Date Night is a good fit if you:
feel basically stable, but notice stress, distance, or miscommunication
want something practical and experiential rather than therapy
value learning processes you can return to again and again
Who This Is Not For
This experience is not designed for couples in active crisis, high conflict, or situations where safety is a concern. If that reflects where things are right now, we’re happy to help you find a more appropriate option through Heritage Professional Associates.
If you are still uncertain whether this is for you, one of the presenters would be happy to talk to you and help you decide.
Event Details
Guided Relationship Tune-Up – A Working Date Night
📅 Friday, March 13
🕕 6:00–9:30 p.m.
📍 Hinsdale
🍽 Light supper and refreshments provided
Cost: $225 per couple
Early Bird: $179 per couple for registrations received by March 3
Space is limited to preserve the quality and intimacy of the experience.
Your Guides
This evening will be led by clinicians from Heritage Professional Associates:
Together, your guides bring
65 years of combined marriage experience.
69 years of combined experience working with couples.